KNOW YOUR WORTH

               Hello beautiful people...
     
      It's been a while. I can't believe I haven't been here in a week!

   Let's pause on fashion​ for a bit and talk for a moment.

       Recently I've asked myself if it's okay to quit. There are bills to foot and of course a lot of responsibilities to handle. Anyway,do you want to know what I just discovered? Well it's actually not a new discovery .
 
       Aside from  the reality in the outside world , most people believe that some things have to be included in your calculation as a woman before the world can see your equation as "balanced".
   
           Why do people think that as a woman you can't be termed "successful" without a man by you side ,even if you are a CEO and often find yourself in the boardroom?  Questions​ like" how is work"? leave a sour taste in their mouth. Why? The only lyrics and rhythm they sing and dance to respectively​ is "when are you getting married"?

          And do you know the most crazy part of this? Men seem to have forgotten that women deserve to be respected. Dark,tall, light-skinned, fat,slim or short it matters not. Every woman deserves respect. The earlier that sink in the head of our men the better.

             Ladies this is an advice, don't ever lose your self respect. Earn the respect you deserve. Be confident and independent . Nobody wants to end up with a liability. Learn a skill if you must but don't be 100% dependent on anyone.

         So the next time someone tells you, you can't be a CEO just because you are a woman or you success is linked with been a MRS,  tell him or her that you alone can determine when you are truly ready. Don't​ let anyone rush you into things you aren't ready for. Life is too short to leave your happiness and approval in someone else's pocket.
     
         Mothers please train your sons to respect women. To all the ladies, if a man cannot respect his own mother just forget it okay? Earning his respect is going to be difficult but not impossible.

          Often at times some ladies seem to forget their worth! Yes sweetie I know you want to settle and have kids at 28, you want your parents to have their grandkids , I understand but still, don't let your loneliness drive you into the arms of the wrong guy. Remember, it's better to marry late than marry wrong. And oh yes! don't fall in that trap,  yes I mean it, that trap, exactly... that trap. What trap? Thinking you can change him. Things don't happen that way.

          Nobody can be changed except they really want to. So the next time such a thought gets in your head, remind yourself that no one changes except they want to be changed.

       Been single is not a disease. It means you are strong enough to be alone but not lonely. Know and appreciate your worth. If you do so others will learn how you want to be loved and respected.

       You don't find your worth in a man, you find your worth within yourself. Your worth has always been with YOU and only YOU but you gave it to others and forgot that it ever existed.

        Now back to fashion...
             

           I like this style. I just love the way the fabrics were combined together to make it lovely. This is recommended by me. Try to experiment with your fabrics, different prints is the G in "glamorous".

Thanks for stopping by​...

Don't forget that this is a dialogue. I want to read your beautiful and inspiring comments​.

      Do you think it's okay to give up? What's your take on been independent as a woman? If you are a man,how well should you respect your woman?